Be True At The Beginning.

Be True At The Beginning.

Jul 12, 2021

My entire life I have been chastised, talked about and judged because I was always one to open up early. I never quite understood why? Like I knew the reasoning from the people who judged me, but to me, their reasoning didn’t make sense. I was even turned down on several dates because the woman would say that I would get too personal too soon. “Don’t tell people your insecurities because people will use that as ammunition to hurt you.”“Don’t talk about your past relationships.”“Don’t bring up your past traumas because all you will do is push somebody away.: So my question is derived from the basic who, what, when, why and how principle. If you are not suppose to be open at the beginning, then who are you suppose to be in that that time period? Are you suppose to say everything that you feel the person wants to hear? Act the way that makes the person think that you are genuine and attractive? Yea because I don’t see how that could possibly lead to trouble later on in the relationship. What are you going to do? Are you going to do something that doesn’t make you happy only to please the other person? Are you going to conduct yourself in an activity that you aren’t really interested in?…

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